Hey there!! I’m Megan and I want to welcome you to Heart of a Girl, a blog about life, ministry, and motherhood.   My heart for this blog is to be able to share with you what the Lord is teaching me as I try to navigate life in ministry as well as becoming a new mom.  This mom thing is quite the adventure and we need each other to make it through.  My prayer is that as the Lord teaches me many lessons that I would share them with you and that you would be encouraged and know that you are not alone.  Let’s take on life together!


I am married to my very best friend in the whole world and I’m absolutely the luckiest girl ever!   My husband and I have been married for 6 years now and currently serve as youth pastors to a bunch of awesome students here in Texas! Holla!  We love serving the local church and are extremely blessed by ouchurch family.

My incredible best friend, greatest support, and constant encourager.

In November 2013, the Lord blessed us with a healthy, amazing, adventurer who hates sleep named Jaxon Hayes.  Jaxon is currently four and is an absolute whirlwind.  He has zero fear which gives his mamma LOTS of fear!  He is very determined and gives me a run for my money.  For as crazy as he can be, he is the absolute sweetest big brother.

Beautiful miss Finnley Brave.

December 2015 we welcomed miss Finnley Brave into our family.  She is the shy one of the family. She is quirky and weird in the best way and marches to the beat of her own drum. (I’ll let you decide who she gets that from). She’s currently 2 and has plenty of opinions but is a lot of fun!

I am just a girl who God found and pulled out of the mess my life was in.   I love that our God is a God of grace, forgiveness, and love.   I have been immersed in the ministry since the Lord changed my life in 9th grade. From that moment on, I jumped “all in”. The church was my life. It was where I spent all my free time. The church was my safe place.  My heart and my passion is the ministry and I feel like I’m at my very best when I am fully serving the church.

When I became a mother I had a major identity crises.  I was in a place in my life where I didn’t have community, I didn’t have people reaching out to me,  I didn’t have mom friends around me.  I had just experienced the biggest change in my life and I was completely alone in it.  This was such a hard transition for me and I stumbled through this season poorly.  I found myself not able to serve the church in the capacity that I’d always served.  I wasn’t able to be as involved as I wanted to be and this broke me.  Now, looking back I can see that I found my identity in ministry and when that was stripped away I didn’t know who I was.  I was lost. I was lost and alone.

My hope and prayer is that I try to do whatever I can to help other moms know that this doesn’t have to be the end of their story.  They can thrive and have community and deep friendships.  We don’t have to do life alone!  We can take on life together!